I'm going to be very open here... but please don't go spreading news that what I say here IS in fact going to happen. This is just what's been on our hearts and going through our minds lately...
We could really use your prayers in the coming weeks ahead. Paul and I have some really tough decisions to make. We're both strongly considering making a move. To where? Probably MA. But we don't know for sure... maybe for a short time. Paul and I need to get back on our feet. It's very possible that we will need the help of family to accomplish that.
I know we're supposed to trust God and have faith that He will provide. He has, and I count every blessing! But, who is to say that it isn't God's plan for us to go be with family for a little while to get ourselves financially stable again? We've gone almost 3 weeks without heat for our water. Paul and I have paid our gas company between $50 to $100 every month, but Amerigas doesn't think that's enough and wants it paid IN FULL before they'll turn it back on. We can't save money, because we're spending our extra money on babysitters for Sophie and then our necessities for us and for Sophie.
I'm not saying this WILL happen, but it's definitely something we're praying about. If we do make a move it will be by the end of summer. Unless God has other plans and makes a way for us to stay here and become financially stable.
If we do make a move, it will be very hard for Paul, because all of his family and friends will be very far away. At least where we live right now is half way between his "people" and my "people". It would also be hard for us, because we would want our privacy and space. But, sometimes we need to do what is best for our family.
SO, please PRAY! Thank you so much!
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If you both are in agreement that you should head to MA, then do it! I can just hear the stress in your posts and sometimes you need to fall back on family to be able to do what's best for your sweet girl! It would only be for a season and then you can refocus and figure out what God's next step is for your family! It sounds to me like you just live in a super expensive area and that is just really hard to deal with!! (not that MA is all that cheap). Anyway, I prayed yesterday for clear direction for you guys and I'll pray again today. May God supply ALL your needs!
I'll try not to be selfish and say I hope you move back to MA for a while....but the babysitting is cheaper here. I will be praying that God give you clarity in which direction you should go.
Laurie
Alisha and Paul,.. i will also continue to pray as you make this hard decision to make a big move. praying for clarity and just peace of heart with every step you take in the months to come. love you all!
I will be praying with you. If you should decide to move closer to Paul's family, I happen to know of cheap, cute townhouse available at the end of this month:) And the cost of living here is pretty good as well.
Whatever you decide to do, I will be praying the our Heavenly Father will order your steps.
And I'll be nearby this summer!! If you should ever need help with Sophie during the day, please don't hesitate to ask! I would love to help take care of her:)
So, I don't actually know you (clicked some links from Marty Holman's blog for no reason I could put my finger on.)
But I've been there-- I met my wife in California, where we didn't have much in the way of family support.
We had a life I loved there. We had a third child on the way, and some medical issues which lead to some really struggles financially.
It wasn't easy to uproot ourselves. My wife had never even been to New England. I hadn't lived here in a decade. I'd be lying if I said there wasn't a bit of culture shock.
However:
I can't imagine what my life would be like if we hadn't done it. I've come to Christ. We've discovered an amazing church. My kids know where they come from. Much of my family is part of my everyday life.
My prayers are with you. I know how financial challenges and worries about kids can just infect every corner of your lives.
Don't move to MA. You'll regret that decision forever. Hot water is overrated.
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